It's a matter of the one thing you can't have syndrome.... If you must know, when they both came in together.. It was at the hall at first. I was the one to greet them both... Me... I was there... I offered them a place to stay.. And when they both started showing feelings, I encouraged them... One went one way.... but she... she found another... My son... But.. as I don't persue.. I encouraged her to give love a shot, to try and see where things go... She chose to try.... with him.. Not the one who was there for her. But the one that caught her eye.... Then tonight, I yell at her.. turns her on, you can tell she was getting heated. Well... so could seb. What does he do? Exploit it and use it to his advantage... cementing it. My own son, asserted his dominance.. over me.. as a superior... He got her... And it feels like taking something from me. I was the one getting close, I was the one unlocking the kinks. I do all the work, he walks in at an opertune moment and with little to no effort, takes advantage of all the work I put in.....